The only way we can know what love is is that we experience God and His love first.  Love is the most excellent way – the best way to live!  The nature of love doesn’t have “self” in it.  Jesus demonstrated Love through His death, burial and resurrection.  And He put His love in us, because He put Himself in us.  So love is the true identity of every believer in Christ.  Now, may we truly live the most excellent way!